This Project documents long term gay and lesbian committed relationships. According to the Australian Bureau of Statistics the median length of an Australian Marriage is 8.7 years so I have used this number as the minimum length of time to be part of this project.

I believe that Gay,Lesbian and Transgendered relationships deserve the same legal rights and public respect as heterosexual ones.

But this project is about more than just "gay marriage" I really hope that these simple images of loving couples will help reduce homophobia, will inspire young people to keep their romantic dreams and for parents to know that their gay, lesbian and transgendered children have just as much chance of having a long term and happy family life as anyone else.

The Commitment Project is aimed to show the wider community that gays and lesbians, for all our differences we still fundamentally want the same thing, to be allowed to love who we love.

If you are gay, lesbian, queer (or however you wish to identify yourself) in a relationship longer than 8.7 years (which is about 8 years and 10 months) and would like to be involved in this project please send me an email - and put "the commitment project" in the subject line.

Please do not use any of the images contained with this website for any purpose without the written permission of Evan Cooper AND the people within the photograph.

Everyone who views this blog is welcome to leave comments, in fact I encourage people to do so.

After speaking to the NSW based "The Gender Centre" to seek some clarification (but this doesn't make me an expert) I really encourage any transgendered people that are not able to marry due to their gender identity and their birthday certificate being different to be part of this project. They just need to be in a committed relationship for 8.8 years or longer.

Press Release

June 3, 2011

Photographer’s exhibition celebrates equal love

GAY marriage is becoming a hot topic in Australian politics as the country’s law makers debate whether it is right and fair to allow same-sex couples the ability to enjoy the same rights as their mixed-sex friends.
But aside from the political slinging matches and the emotional protests the real human side of the gay marriage debate is often overlooked.

Sydney-based photographer Evan Cooper has taken the personal, real-life stories of same-sex couples who believe in equal rights for all and put them on display in a touching tribute to the fact that enduring love has no boundaries when it comes to gender or sexuality.
After watching both of his grandfathers pass away Cooper wonder if he, as a gay man, would ever be able to have a relationship that lasted anywhere near the length of either of his grandparents. 

“The affection my grandparents had in their last days as a couple was so real and intense that I know that they were in love till the very end, it was the fairytale we are all told as kids and it moved me”

Looking for a project to satisfy his love of photography Evan decided he would document long term same-sex relationships, not only for himself but also for others that might be looking for the same type of answers.
And so The Commitment Project was born, a website dedicated to celebrating the love of same-sex couples in Australia.

According to the Australian Bureau of Statistics, the median length of an Australian marriage is 8.7 years. So using that as his benchmark, Evan set out to find same-sex couples who have been in relationships that have lasted longer than the average length of an Australian marriage.

“Finding couples in the beginning was hard but slowly through word of mouth and the use of social media I have been able to connect with couples from different walks of life.”

His journey led him to find couples from around the country whose relationships range from 8.8 years to 51 years, proving that same-sex couples have relationships that are not only just as valid as mixed-sex marriages but also as enduring.

Some would see The Commitment Project as one tool in the fight for marriage equality, but according to Evan he wants it to mean much more than that to people.
“I also want people to see it as a document of loving relationships and inspire young people to believe they can find ‘the one’,” he said.
“I guess it can also let parents know that just because their child has come out as same-sex attracted, it isn’t a sentence to a life of loneliness.”

But, of course, the project also has a powerful political message.

“Hopefully it will help change the minds of the general public and Australian Political leaders about marriage equality,” Evan said.

Marriage Equality is something close to Evans’ heart.

He believes that when a government says one group of people are to be treated differently it allows homophobia and discrimination to grow as it creates and “us” and “them” mentality.  And while Marriage equality won’t instantly end homophobia in Australia it is a step in the right direction.

Photos from the project are currently on display at but physical exhibitions of the photographs are currently being planned.

The main exhibition will be a very public work in Town Hall Train Station Sydney that Evan is currently fundraising for. 

He is asking for the public to pledge a small amount of money towards making this happen and he has until August 1 2011 to raise the funds.

 If people would like to be involved people can look at the project’s website


Evan Cooper
0431 851 293